Are we meant to be the fastest group? Does every navigation decision have to be perfect? What happens if someone struggles, or we get something wrong and don’t realise?

It’s worth saying this clearly from the start: DofE expeditions are not about perfection. They are not about never getting lost, never arguing, or never having a low moment, and they are certainly not about being the toughest or most confident person in the group.

From an instructor’s point of view, we’re not standing at a distance with a clipboard waiting for mistakes to happen. We’re far more interested in how a group responds when things don’t go exactly to plan, because that’s where the real learning sits.

Let’s clear up a few myths first

Instructors aren’t looking for the fastest group, the quietest group, or the one that looks the most polished on paper. Perfect navigation from start to finish is not expected, and neither is constant positivity.

The Duke of Edinburgh’s Award is built around learning through experience. Mistakes are expected, and they’re often the moments that lead to the biggest growth, not something that counts against you.

Teamwork matters more than individual performance

One of the first things instructors notice has very little to do with maps or miles. It’s how you move as a group.

Do people walk together, or does one person surge ahead while others struggle behind? Are quieter members included in decisions, or do the same voices dominate every conversation? Does anyone notice when someone’s energy drops?

Strong teamwork rarely looks dramatic. More often it shows up in small, steady behaviours: someone easing the pace without comment, someone sharing food, someone checking in quietly rather than making a fuss. Those moments tell us far more than who’s “in charge”.

DofE expeditions are shared journeys, not solo missions with an audience.

Decision-making matters more than being right

Navigation errors happen to everyone. Always have, always will.

What instructors pay attention to is what happens next. Does the group stop and reassess, or keep walking and hope things sort themselves out? Are decisions talked through, or taken over by one person under pressure? Can the group pause, breathe, and use the map and compass properly rather than panicking?

A group that says, “Let’s stop here and work this out,” is doing well, even if they weren’t exactly where they thought they were ten minutes earlier. Calm decision-making shows confidence and maturity, not failure.

Speaking up is a strength

Some of the strongest expedition moments start with someone saying something small and honest:
“I’m not sure this is right.”
“My foot’s starting to rub.”
“Could we stop for a minute?”

Many young people worry about being the one who slows things down, but from an instructor’s perspective, early communication is a really good sign. It shows awareness and responsibility, and it usually prevents bigger problems later in the day.

No one is expected to struggle quietly on a DofE expedition.

Looking after yourself is part of doing well

Eating regularly, drinking enough, sorting wet socks, adjusting layers and pacing energy aren’t optional extras. They’re core skills, and instructors absolutely notice them.

Groups who remember to snack before they’re exhausted, who stop to deal with discomfort early, and who help each other stay regulated tend to move more steadily and enjoy the experience more. Those habits matter far beyond DofE, too, because they’re about recognising needs and responding before things spiral.

When it feels hard (because it sometimes will)

There will be moments that feel genuinely tough. Long hills, bad weather, tired legs, low morale, or a bit of friction within the group are all part of the experience.

Instructors aren’t expecting constant cheerfulness. What we’re watching for is how a group handles those moments. Can you keep moving together rather than turning on each other? Can frustration shift into problem-solving instead of blame? Can you support one another when energy dips?

Resilience isn’t about pretending something is easy. It’s about acknowledging difficulty and continuing anyway, with support.

This is one of the reasons outdoor learning is so effective, and something organisations like the Institute for Outdoor Learning consistently highlight. Supported challenge builds confidence in a way very little else does.

Progress matters more than performance

No one expects young people to start their expedition knowing everything. What instructors really enjoy seeing is progress.

Better decisions later in the day than earlier on. Navigation that feels more confident by the second day. A group that communicates more smoothly after a wobble. Those changes matter far more than getting everything right from the outset.

An expedition is a process, not a performance.

A quiet word for parents

If you’re reading this as a parent, it’s completely normal to feel anxious, particularly if this is your child’s first time away from home or their first major physical challenge.

What we see, time and time again, is young people returning more grounded, more self-assured, and quietly proud of themselves, even if they don’t immediately say much about it. They are supported throughout by trained staff, clear safety systems, and a structure designed to stretch without overwhelming.

DofE expeditions are not about pushing young people to breaking point. They’re about helping them realise what they can handle, often with a bit of surprise.

The main thing to remember

Instructors are not looking for perfect expeditions. They’re looking for thoughtful, supportive groups who learn as they go.

If you communicate honestly, look after yourselves and each other, make decisions together, and keep moving when things feel difficult, you’re doing DofE exactly as it’s intended.

Those moments that feel hardest at the time often become the ones people feel most proud of later.

For official guidance and expedition expectations, you can visit the Duke of Edinburgh’s Award website.

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More often, it grows quietly. It might be halfway up a long hill when legs are tired but still moving, or at a confusing junction where the map finally makes sense after a bit of discussion. Sometimes it shows up at the campsite, when everyone is exhausted, but dinner still gets made and laughter creeps in despite the day. These moments don’t feel extraordinary at the time, but they matter.

That’s one of the reasons Duke of Edinburgh expeditions are so powerful. Young people don’t set out to build confidence, yet many return with a stronger belief in themselves than they realised they were capable of. Alongside that confidence develops something even more important: self-efficacy — the sense that “I can handle this”, even when things feel uncertain or uncomfortable.

In everyday life, confidence is often built through reassurance. There is usually someone nearby to say you’re doing fine, to clarify expectations, or to step in the moment something starts to wobble. On expedition, that safety net looks a little different.

Young people are asked to make real decisions rather than hypothetical ones. They manage their own energy, take responsibility for their kit, work out where they are, and keep moving when things feel harder than expected. This isn’t because anyone wants them to struggle, but because self-efficacy develops through experience. It grows when someone realises they can cope without constant reassurance, and that they don’t need to feel confident before doing something in order to do it well.

There is often a moment, sometimes quiet and sometimes emotional, where something shifts internally. The realisation that something is difficult but manageable can be transformative, especially when it’s discovered rather than explained. That understanding tends to stay with young people long after the expedition ends.

What’s striking is that this growth doesn’t always come from big achievements. Confidence and self-efficacy tend to build through small, ordinary moments that might not look impressive from the outside.

It might be packing a rucksack properly and noticing you no longer need help. It might be navigating a section you were anxious about and finding your decisions holding up. It might be speaking up when something doesn’t feel right and being taken seriously or supporting someone else through a wobble and realising your own steadiness in the process.

Taken together, these moments quietly reshape how young people see themselves. By the end of an expedition, many don’t say they feel more confident. They simply behave differently. They trust their judgement a little more, hesitate a little less, and approach challenges with a steadier sense of perspective.

Shared challenge plays a significant role in this process.

Doing something difficult alongside other people changes the story young people tell themselves. They begin to notice that everyone has moments of doubt, tiredness or frustration, and that these moments don’t cancel out ability or competence. Needing help no longer feels like failure, and offering support doesn’t come with the pressure of carrying everything alone.

We often see young people arrive believing that confidence means having all the answers, only to leave understanding that confidence can also look like admitting uncertainty or asking for a pause. Far from weakening a group, these moments usually strengthen it, reinforcing the idea that challenges are manageable when they’re faced honestly and together.

This is one of the reasons outdoor learning is so effective, and something frequently highlighted by organisations such as the Institute for Outdoor Learning. When challenge is shared and properly supported, it builds both confidence and self-efficacy in a way that praise or reassurance alone rarely achieves.

The impact of this learning doesn’t stay on the hill, we often see it emerge later in quieter ways. Young people communicate more clearly, cope better when plans change, and show greater willingness to try unfamiliar situations without needing everything mapped out in advance. There is a growing sense that they can work things out, even when conditions aren’t ideal.

The Duke of Edinburgh’s Award isn’t about turning young people into outdoor experts. It’s about helping them develop belief in their own capability through experience rather than instruction.

For parents, this can feel counterintuitive.

It’s natural to worry that challenge might knock confidence rather than build it, particularly if a child finds physical effort, uncertainty or time away from home difficult. What we consistently see, however, is that supported challenge tends to have the opposite effect.

When young people are given space to face difficulty — without being overwhelmed or left to struggle alone — they often return more settled in themselves. Not louder or outwardly more confident, but more grounded. They’ve done something real, and they know it, even if they don’t immediately talk much about it.

DofE expeditions are carefully structured, led by trained staff, and supported by clear safety systems. They are designed to stretch young people at an appropriate pace, creating space for learning without pushing anyone to breaking point.

The confidence and self-efficacy that grow through DofE expeditions last because they are earned. They aren’t based on praise, comparison, or being told that anything is possible. They come from lived experience — from discovering, often quietly, that you can handle more than you once thought.

Young people rarely come back believing they were the best. They come back knowing they managed something that once felt daunting. That belief tends to stay with them.

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Chances are you’ve already heard plenty of advice — what boots to buy, how heavy your rucksack should be, what food to pack. And while all of that matters, some of the biggest challenges on DofE expeditions don’t become obvious until you’re right in the middle of it. To reassure you straight away: everyone makes mistakes on DofE — that’s part of the learning. I certainly did.

I still vividly remember my own Bronze DofE expedition. I packed a full Mickey Mouse onesie, convinced I’d be cosy by a fire in the evenings. What actually happened was a rucksack so overstuffed I had gear hanging off every strap, feet covered in blisters, and a dramatic moment where I was adamant I was going to phone ChildLine. Somehow, I still came out the other side more confident — with a newfound love of the outdoors — and went on to become an outdoor instructor. So if you’re nervous, you’re in good company.

Here are the most common mistakes we see on DofE expeditions, with a bit of honesty about what they actually feel like and how to avoid them.

Overpacking (or Packing the Wrong Things)

The biggest mistake we see is packing for comfort rather than practicality — an imaginary version of the expedition involving cosy evenings, endless outfit options, bulky pyjamas, multiple hoodies, unnecessary toiletries (yes, including the full 10-step skincare routine), and novelty items that feel like a great idea at home. You’ll set off feeling fine and optimistic… then an hour in, your shoulders ache, the straps dig in, and every hill feels emotional. By lunchtime you’re eyeing up your mate’s tiny, sensible pack and wondering what life choices led you here. Extra weight doesn’t just slow you down — it drains energy, affects posture, and makes everything harder than it needs to be.

How to avoid it:

• Stick closely to the official kit list
• Prioritise multi-use items
• Lay everything out before packing and ask: Do I really need this?
• Pack as a group and compare — if everyone else has one jumper, you probably don’t need three
• If it’s bulky and non-essential, leave it at home

Comfort on expedition comes from being warm, dry, fed and rested — not from bringing novelty items you’ll resent by mile three. By the end of the expedition, most young people are amazed at how little they actually need. Learning to pack smart is a confidence boost in itself. You can find official kit guidance on the Duke of Edinburgh’s Award website under Expedition Resources.

Wearing Boots That Don’t Know Your Feet Yet

At first, everything’s fine… then there’s a slight rub… then a burn… then every step feels like a personal attack and you’re pretending you’re okay while silently bargaining with the universe. The mistake: Brand new boots, worn for the first time on expedition. This is the fastest route to blisters, hot spots, and misery. Painful feet affect morale, pace, navigation focus, and enjoyment.

How to avoid it:

• Break boots in well before expedition (walks, school, dog walks, training days)
• Pair boots with the socks you’ll use on expedition
• Learn where your feet rub and tape early if needed

Blisters aren’t a badge of honour or “character building” — they’re just painful. Learning to look after your feet is a genuine life skill, and most young people come away far more aware of what their body needs.

Ignoring Foot Care Until It’s Too Late

You notice something early on… but keep going. Later, it hurts. Later still, it really hurts. Now stopping feels even harder, and you wish you’d said something an hour ago. We get it — no one wants to be “that person” who stops the group because of sore feet. But small issues turn into big ones quickly when walking long distances, and once feet are damaged, recovery is hard.

How to avoid it:

• Speak up early — that’s good teamwork
• Keep feet dry where possible
• Change socks if they’re wet
• Tape hot spots immediately

Your instructors would always rather you stopped early than struggled on in silence. DofE teaches young people to speak up for themselves — and to support others when they do.

Underestimating Navigation Fatigue

You’re tired, it’s raining sideways, everyone’s hungry, and suddenly the map feels like it’s written in another language. You think this is the right path… but what if it’s not? Do you say something, or hope for the best? Navigation takes concentration, teamwork and confidence — especially when conditions aren’t ideal.

How to avoid it:

• Practise navigating while tired
• Stop and recheck rather than “hoping it’ll work out”
• Learn to trust your compass, not just paths

Navigation confidence matters more than speed. There’s a huge sense of pride in making a good decision, checking it properly, and realising you got the group there. The DofE expedition is about journey quality — not racing.

Not Eating or Drinking Enough

We all know what being hangry feels like — now add a heavy rucksack, tired legs, and a journey that suddenly seems to stretch forever. You snap at the person beside you for breathing too loudly, every small problem feels massive, and you briefly consider setting your rucksack on fire. That was the moment you should’ve eaten. Sometimes it feels easier to forget to snack, skip lunch to “push on”, or you just can’t be bothered digging food out your bag. But low energy leads to poor decisions, slower walking, low mood, and unnecessary tension.

How to avoid it:

• Eat little and often
• Bring food you know you’ll eat
• Drink before you feel thirsty
• Keep snacks easily accessible (top pouch or side pocket)

Expedition days burn more energy than you think. Food is fuel — use it. Learning how food affects mood and energy is a powerful insight that sticks long after the expedition.

Letting Group Tensions Simmer

Someone’s walking too fast. Someone’s walking too slow. Someone keeps checking the map but not saying anything. No one wants to be the first to speak — so everyone quietly gets more annoyed. Unspoken issues grow fast when you’re tired and stressed. Teams function best when everyone feels able to contribute.

How to avoid it:

• Agree early that everyone can question decisions
• Check in with each other regularly
• Let the slowest team member set the pace

Remember: supporting each other is part of the assessment. DofE expeditions aren’t just about self-reliance — they’re about teamwork. Shared challenge often strengthens friendships, and many groups come back closer than when they left.

Unrealistic Expectations

There are amazing moments — but there are also long hills, wet socks, and times when you wonder why you signed up. That’s the side you don’t see on Instagram. When expectations don’t match reality, frustration hits harder.

How to avoid it:

• Accept that it will be challenging
• Expect moments of discomfort
• Know that difficulty doesn’t mean you’re doing it wrong

Some of the best memories come from the hardest days. Many young people finish their expedition surprised by how capable they are.

Forgetting Why You’re Doing DofE at All

In the moment, it can feel endless. Afterwards, it’s often one of the things you’re proudest of. It’s easy to get so caught up in the challenge that we forget the bigger picture.

How to avoid it:

• Remember: this isn’t about perfection
• Mistakes are allowed — hiding them isn’t
• You are capable of more than you think

The DofE expedition isn’t designed to be a walk in the park — it’s designed to show you what you can handle. Those difficult moments often become the stories people laugh about later and feel proud of.

A Note for Parents

It’s completely normal to worry about your child heading off on expedition — especially if it’s their first time away from home or their first big physical challenge. What we see, time and time again, is young people returning:

• More confident
• More independent
• Proud of themselves
• With stories they’re genuinely excited to tell

Young people are supported throughout their expedition by trained staff, clear safety systems, and a structure designed to challenge without overwhelming. Discomfort is part of growth — but no one is left to struggle alone. DofE expeditions aren’t about pushing young people to breaking point. They’re about helping them discover what they’re capable of, with support around them.   If I could go back and talk to my younger self — blistered, overpacked, and seriously regretting that Mickey Mouse onesie — I’d say this: You won’t get everything right — and that’s exactly why it matters.

DofE expeditions build confidence because they’re challenging, shared, and real. You learn not just how to walk from A to B, but how to look after yourself, work with others, and keep going when things feel hard. And if you stick with it, you might just surprise yourself with where it leads.

For official guidance, resources and expedition requirements, visit the Duke of Edinburgh’s Award website.

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